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Anxiety at Night: Why It Often Feels Worse After Dark
When anxiety shows up at night, it can feel overwhelming — racing thoughts, tension in the body, and pressure to sleep can take over just as the world goes quiet. This compassionate article explores why anxiety often intensifies after dark and offers gentle, therapy-informed ways to support your nervous system back toward rest.
The Counselling Cove
Jan 205 min read


Anxiety during Life Change: Why it rises and how to soften it
Anxiety during life change is a natural response to uncertainty, loss of control, and the unfamiliar. Even positive transitions can feel wobbly - and understanding why can help you feel steadier as you navigate them.
The Counselling Cove
Jan 153 min read


When Anxiety Feels Constant: Understanding High-Functioning Anxiety
High-functioning anxiety can hide behind success and competence, leaving capable people quietly exhausted. This post explores what it looks like, why it often goes unnoticed, and how counselling can help before burnout sets in.
The Counselling Cove
Jan 105 min read


When You Are Craving Change, Anxiety Often Speaks First
Anxiety often speaks first when life feels too heavy or familiar routines no longer fit. In counselling, we explore what’s beneath the overwhelm, helping you hear your own voice, set boundaries, and take small steps toward a life that reflects who you truly are.
The Counselling Cove
Dec 11, 20254 min read


Managing Anxiety: from Control to Confidence through Counselling
Anxiety often convinces us that controlling everything will keep us safe. But real safety comes from trusting yourself to handle life as it unfolds.
Managing anxiety isn’t about having all the answers - it’s about building confidence in your ability to cope, one step at a time. Counselling can help guide that journey.
The Counselling Cove
Dec 2, 20253 min read


Understanding your Inner Critic: Why it shows up and how counselling can help
Most of us know that inner voice that says, “You should be doing more,” or “Why can’t you just get it right?” That’s your inner critic - the part that points out mistakes, compares you to others, and sets impossible standards. While it can feel harsh, your inner critic often has a protective purpose. It might have developed to keep you safe from criticism or rejection - to help you fit in, achieve, or avoid failure. But over time, that protective voice can become relentles
The Counselling Cove
Nov 7, 20253 min read


Learning to let go of Perfectionism and People-Pleasing: How counselling can help
Perfectionism and people-pleasing can drain your energy. Counselling helps you reconnect with yourself and respond from a place of authenticity.
The Counselling Cove
Nov 5, 20252 min read


Understanding Anxiety: Calming the Alarm without Silencing Yourself
Learn to understand anxiety as an inner alarm, not an enemy, and discover gentle ways to work with it with compassion and support.
The Counselling Cove
Oct 24, 20253 min read


Breaking free from the “What-Ifs”: Overthinking, Anxiety, and the art of being gentle with yourself
Have you ever caught yourself spiraling into a “what-if” storm? You know the one - your mind racing through countless possibilities, most unlikely, but somehow still feeling urgent and real. If so, you’re not alone. Anxiety often thrives on “what-ifs,” leaving us exhausted, stuck, and disconnected from the present moment.
The Counselling Cove
Oct 22, 20252 min read


Want to reduce stress, anxiety and burnout? Start with the power of boundaries.
Feeling anxious, burnt out, or stressed and stretched thin at work? Boundaries aren’t barriers - they’re the key to reclaiming balance and making space for the moments that matter most.
The Counselling Cove
Sep 8, 20254 min read


Feeling the strain of work stress? Try these tips to prevent burnout and anxiety - Insights from a burnout counsellor
Boundaries and post work rituals are important buffers in helping prevent burnout. Here are some tips for how to support yourself so that you can show up tomorrow with more energy.
The Counselling Cove
Sep 5, 20255 min read


Managing Anxiety: How to turn Anxiety from an Unwelcome Enemy to a Helpful Friend?
Anxiety isn’t there to sabotage you - it’s trying to protect what matters. Sometimes it just turns the volume up too high. Learning how to listen and respond differently can change everything.
The Counselling Cove
Apr 27, 20252 min read


How to Reduce Self-Criticism: Why Are We So Hard on Ourselves?
That quiet but relentless inner critic can drain your confidence and energy. This article explores how to reduce self-criticism and build a gentler inner voice - one small shift at a time.
The Counselling Cove
Mar 22, 20253 min read
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