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When Anxiety Feels Constant: Understanding High-Functioning Anxiety
High-functioning anxiety can hide behind success and competence, leaving capable people quietly exhausted. This post explores what it looks like, why it often goes unnoticed, and how counselling can help before burnout sets in.
The Counselling Cove
Jan 105 min read


When High Standards start to feel heavy: Perfectionism, Burnout, and finding your way back
Perfectionism can feel like a superpower - the drive to do things well, to care deeply, to be reliable. But when those strengths stretch too far, they can quietly lead to burnout, exhaustion, and that persistent feeling that nothing is ever enough. In this post, we explore why perfectionism can become overwhelming, and how self-compassion and psychological flexibility can help you maintain your high standards without running yourself into the ground.
The Counselling Cove
Dec 4, 20253 min read


Understanding the Five Imposter Profiles - Perfectionist, Expert, Natural Genius, Soloist & Superhuman
Burnout isn’t just about being busy - it’s often driven by the hidden rules and perfectionist pressures we place on ourselves. In this article, we explore Valerie Young’s five Imposter Profiles and how they quietly fuel stress, self-doubt, and exhaustion. You may recognise yourself in one… or all five.
The Counselling Cove
Nov 18, 20254 min read


Learning to let go of Perfectionism and People-Pleasing: How counselling can help
Perfectionism and people-pleasing can drain your energy. Counselling helps you reconnect with yourself and respond from a place of authenticity.
The Counselling Cove
Nov 5, 20252 min read


Want to reduce stress, anxiety and burnout? Start with the power of boundaries.
Feeling anxious, burnt out, or stressed and stretched thin at work? Boundaries aren’t barriers - they’re the key to reclaiming balance and making space for the moments that matter most.
The Counselling Cove
Sep 8, 20254 min read


Feeling the strain of work stress? Try these tips to prevent burnout and anxiety - Insights from a burnout counsellor
Boundaries and post work rituals are important buffers in helping prevent burnout. Here are some tips for how to support yourself so that you can show up tomorrow with more energy.
The Counselling Cove
Sep 5, 20255 min read


The Burnout creep: How it sneaks up on you
Burnout rarely arrives with sirens blaring and is more like a slow leak on your system. Learn how the burnout creep can happen, and how counselling can help.
The Counselling Cove
Aug 21, 20253 min read


Why do I feel guilty when I try to rest during burnout?
If you have ever found yourself flooded with guilt when you try to relax, this isn't uncommon. Burnout has a way of making it feel hard to relax. Here's what can happen and how you can support yourself.
The Counselling Cove
Aug 15, 20254 min read


Finding Meaning in the midst of Burnout
This blog explains how burnout if more than just exhaustion. Often it can involve a sense of disconnection and search for meaning.
The Counselling Cove
Jul 7, 20254 min read
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