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Some endings don’t come neatly wrapped. A relationship might vanish overnight, a friendship fades without a word, or someone you love becomes distant - physically present but emotionally gone. These are moments that leave you suspended, grieving something that feels unfinished. Many people describe this as grieving someone who’s still alive. It’s a form of heartbreak that doesn’t have an ending . You may catch yourself replaying moments, hoping for answers, or wondering how s

Most of us know that inner voice that says, “You should be doing more,”  or “Why can’t you just get it right?”  That’s your inner critic  - the part that points out mistakes, compares you to others, and sets impossible standards. While it can feel harsh, your inner critic often has a protective purpose. It might have developed to keep you safe from criticism or rejection - to help you fit in, achieve, or avoid failure. But over time, that protective voice can become relentles

Perfectionism and people-pleasing can drain your energy. Counselling helps you reconnect with yourself and respond from a place of authenticity.

Learn to understand anxiety as an inner alarm, not an enemy, and discover gentle ways to work with it with compassion and support.

Have you ever caught yourself spiraling into a “what-if” storm? You know the one - your mind racing through countless possibilities, most unlikely, but somehow still feeling urgent and real. If so, you’re not alone. Anxiety often thrives on “what-ifs,” leaving us exhausted, stuck, and disconnected from the present moment.

Breakups and divorce are painful losses that can leave you grieving deeply. Healing isn’t a straight line - it’s a back-and-forth between sadness and rebuilding. This post explores why heartbreak hurts so much, gentle steps to move forward, and how counselling can support you through the ups and downs of recovery.