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Stuck in a Rut? Why your Brain needs a Breather (and your Feet need a Walk)

As a walk and talk therapist, I know firsthand the power of movement and being outdoors. It’s something I encourage with clients every day. But let’s be real - I’m also human, and just as prone to falling into mental traps as anyone else.


This past week, I’ve been working on a new project that slowly turned into a mental quagmire. The more I pushed, the more stuck I felt. Motivation slipped, so I tried to power through by throwing more hours at it. Just work harder, right?


Spoiler alert: it didn’t help. Productivity dropped, frustration spiked, and I found myself in a loop. Sound familiar? (Please tell me I’m not the only one.)


It’s a common human tendency: when we’re stuck, we double down and try to force a breakthrough. But often, that effort is like picking at a scab - it just makes things worse.


What we usually need isn’t more effort - it’s less. Space. A pause. A shift in energy or environment.


So this morning, somewhat reluctantly, I took my own advice. I stepped away from the project, laced up my shoes, and went for a walk. No headphones, no podcast — just me, the birds, the trees, and the crunch of leaves. I paused by the water, felt the breeze, soaked in the stillness. And somewhere in that quiet, as the internal noise settled, my thoughts softened - and clarity returned.


In a world of constant input, giving your mind space to breathe can feel like a rare luxury. But it makes all the difference.


When I returned to my work later, everything felt different. I sat down with fresh energy, clarity, and a new perspective.


I see this in the counselling room too. Clients spend months, even years, trying to think their way out of feeling stuck - around work, relationships, or life itself. Therapy offers the pause they didn’t know they needed. A space to unpack, reflect, and see things differently.


And when you take that pause into nature? It’s a game-changer. Movement plus nature creates space for insight and clarity to emerge.


That’s why I integrate Walk and Talk Therapy into my work. Getting outside, moving your body, and reconnecting with your surroundings isn’t just “nice” - it can be transformative. It clears mental clutter and opens the door to new perspectives. In life and in therapy, being in motion - especially outdoors - makes things feel more manageable.


There’s something grounding about walking without distractions. The rhythm of your steps, the sounds of nature, the feel of air on your skin - it draws you into the present moment. It invites mindfulness. And in that mindful space, anxiety softens, clarity grows, and self-awareness takes root.


So if you’re feeling stuck - creatively, emotionally, existentially - maybe start with a walk. Even just around the block. And if you want more structured support, you’re welcome to book a Walk and Talk session. Sometimes a change in environment makes all the difference - even for therapists who need to take their own advice.


- Jemima


Sit long enough on a rock, and the noise of the world starts to fade. That’s when you hear yourself.
Sit long enough on a rock, and the noise of the world starts to fade. That’s when you hear yourself.

Nature has a way of reminding us who we really are and where we want to be going.
Nature has a way of reminding us who we really are and where we want to be going.
Visual perspective has a funny way of sparking emotional perspective
Visual perspective has a funny way of sparking emotional perspective



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